Poem

Ungkapan rindu
terpahat di hati ini
entah pada siapa
ingin ku ceritakan
rahsia di hati ini

Ungkapan rindu
padamu pertiwi
entah sampai bila
berakhirnya sebuah kisah
anak muda di perantauan

Ungkapan rindu
hanya buatmu
ayah bonda tercinta
usah ditangisi di kejauhan
demi cita-cita tulusku

Ungkapan rindu
akan terlerai jua
di kedatangan syawal mendatang
mungkin ada waktu buat kita
sempurnakan bersama

This poem i would like to dedicate to my friends and bloggers. Have a blessing Ramadahan and syawal especially to those who are going to celebrate Raya abroad.

"infant-mother bonding"

Yesterday, was the first day my sister went to work after 60 days maternity leave. My brother in law only entitle for 7 days paternity leaves right after the baby was born. Actually this is their second child but the first one, passed away after about 18 hours see this world. So it is understood how precious this second baby is. It is not only for them but also for us. My sister is the only one whom already married, the rest of us still single mingle… so this is the first grandchild for my parents. The baby is so cute; all of us missed him a lot. Yesterday, my sister sends him to her in laws with her maid. The week after next will be our turn. And my sister cried after send him. She missed him only after a few minutes. So, my sister went back early yesterday.Her office is not far from mine and both of us have no lectures, so I drove him to her in laws to see her baby. This is what is called "infant-mother bonding." When a mother and a child are bonded, the child prefers the mother over all other human beings, constantly seeks contact with her, experiences significant joy in her company, and distress when even momentarily separated from her.

Happy Ramadhan

I'm so excited about Ramadhan. It different and make me more productive. Just like previous year, Ramadhan make me always come early to the office and I always have longer hours to spend. My common practice is that I usually wouldn't sleep after Sahur. So, I can drive early to the office without traffic jam. Anyway, I would like to wish all my friends Happy Ramadhan and may Allah bless all.

She is my mum

Everyday before I go to work I will kiss my mum hand and her cheek. Emm...a few days ago, when I kiss her cheek, I felt its no longer firm. I just realized it and while driving to work my brain actively thinking about her. Its make me sad suddenly. The fact is that she's ageing. She's getting older. Sometimes I really hope I can stop her from ageing, I want her maintained young and healthy. And I want her to be around forever and ever. But, when I think again and again, I know I have to accept the fact that all of us will die one day. As times goes by, we will getting older. Some are very luck can live for longer time and some people just leave this world at very young age, even a few hours after labour. I don't know, its kind of sad, when I look at my mum, she's the best mum in the world. I owed her everything, and I know I can not repay her. But the only thing I can do and what I’m doing right now is trying to be a good son. At least I can make her proud and happy of having me as a son.